Gay friend a control freak?

Ok,I have asked this question as of yesterday, with only two responeses. Hoping to get some more feedback. I have this friend. He always feels the need the "lead" the way..Serious..Anytime we are in public he feels the need to lead. I have tried to be more of the dominant person, but everytime I do, he somehow feels the need to take control of the situation.One time when we were at a football game, two guys were in our seats, I told him, no worries Ill take care of it. Well, he took care of it regardless. Am I being a nick picker, or does anyone think my friend feels like he has to protect me somehow?And if so, why?