How can tell if my boyfriend is holding a grudge against me?

You should definitely make him the dinner and show him how much you really do care for him. if he's still upset about going out the first time then thats kind of childish on his part. after all it was your FIRST relationship with him and there fore things are shaky at first. now you guys have perfected you relationship! after knowing him for 2 years and going through all that stuff you guys are together again. thats pretty good!! i say show him you really care for him :]